RAM Trust

The second principle in the Relationship Attachment Model is: TRUST.
Trust is a confidence in another person’s ability to be there for you. To emotionally and physically show up during the happy times and the challenging times of life. Trusting in someone involves a deeper level of vulnerability in your relationship. Intimacy has been referred to as “into-me-you-see” because it involves letting someone in to see you at the core of who you are. When you let someone in and commune with them so deeply this leaves for the deepest pain if that trust is broken. If someone hits your car on the road you definitely are not happy with them but you don’t hold onto the grudge for years typically. If someone you know were to do something to betray you it hurts more because the level of connection you share is deeper. 

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